Welcome to Drama 101

All my life I have found some sort of drama to get tangled up in. There was always the "who's cheating on who" or "oh no she didn't!". Lately I have found myself very drama free. I have been single for a few months and I only get to go out every other weekend. My close circle of friends have slowly grown apart and I find myself bored with everyday things. Back in the day when the gang all hung out at the clubs and threw kick ass parties,there was always quite a few issues. Although we were as close as friends could be and would do anything for each other, even the best of friends can have there spats. We had our share of drama. I think that may be one of the factors in the group's demise. Well, that and the fact that at one point we all have dated someone from the group leaving a nasty wave of breakups in our paths. Plus, most of the group is now married with kids or divorced with kids. So, that doesn't leave much time for partying anymore. The only person I still see on a regular bases is Irish. We are both divorced and both have kids. I think that keeps us so close. Our lives are very similar. Anyway, all that is leading up to this. I have been without drama...until now. Here is my dilemma. I love Irish like a sister and I love my brother, well like a brother. They are both very special to me and I would die if anything ever came between us. But they dated a few years ago and it ended very badly. I don't know the whole story of what happened and honestly I don't want to. It happened, it's over and I'm over it. As Irish told me there is always 3 sides to a story. His side, her side, and the truth. I am just throwing this out there because I know they will both read this. Neither one of them have asked me to take sides and I thank them both. I love them both and would do anything for either one of them,just not that. I have been living a drama free life lately and I do not wish to get back into the old routine. Everyone has made bad decisions in there lives, whether it be dating the wrong person or breaking up with the wrong person. We learn from our mistakes and we try to make better decisions in the future. I know neither one of them will wave the white flag, so I want to wave it for them. Let go of the past and move on. It doesn't matter who dumped who or for what reason. The damage has been done and the best thing to do is to stay away from each other.