This is Your Brain on Relationships...Any Questions?
I have come to realize that my realtionships have been alot like a drug addiction. Good at first, with thrills and excitement, but after the fact I'm sick and broke. Everytime I get out of one I say I'll never do it again. Then, before I know it I'm right back in the middle of a screwed up relationship. "Oh this guy is different. He won't hurt me like the last guy did." Well, that part is right. They never hurt me like the one before them. They find new and improved ways of shitting on me. I always thought the older I got the easier it would be to find a nice guy. You would think the "high school" mentality would be gone by the time they reach 30. Not true. By then they are so use to being single and set in their own ways that it's impossible to get them to be anything more than a dissapointment. I am officially denouncing relationships from this day forward. I don't have an addiction, I can quit at any time.
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You're flaming. Don't flame on your blog. And you can't quit, man. You'ze a junkie fo' life, yo. Word. And stuff.
Well speaking from a nice guy who has gotten older and has given up all the high school crap, we stay well hidden scared to come out. So you end up running into the all the shit heads, that actually take chances. Its a viscious lonely cycle
Wow, I'm glad I'm not in my 20's anymore. The cultural upheaval was mid-swing in my mid-twenties. It appeared harmless but for men particuliary it has proved pretty fatal. Men have been demonized throughout the years and it has manifested itself in most men not knowing who or what to be and therefore not "Growing up" because they don't know what to grow into. I like your blog, you a good writer with some keen insights. I've been searching through these blogs for a couple hours now and I'm not finding much that interest me. I'm thinking I may be the only 40+ year old posting. Nope, thats not true, I found a near to retirement blogger writing about his retirement farm in Kentucky. He and his wife will be retiring soon there from their present home in Long Island, NY. I must assume that they are able to hold onto the cultural values of their generation that now manifests itself as Happiness and hope for the future as they prepare to move to their dream: a horse farm in Kentucky. Anyway Good Luck and
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